Why this exists
Keep the child at the center
The people who serve in family court — judges, attorneys, mediators, and court staff — carry an enormous weight: thousands of families, each one in crisis, each one needing to be truly seen and heard. Humanize Family Court exists to stand alongside them in that work, not against them — to be an ally to the court and to families alike. Together, the aim is simple: keep the child at the center, and choose child-focused resolution instead of victory, healing instead of a winner and a loser.
The founder
Built by a father living it
Humanize Family Court was founded by David Brown Jr. of New Jersey — not from a boardroom, but from inside his own custody case, which he argues himself, self-represented. He lived parental alienation first as a child, and as a father he made a solemn commitment: his own children would never be made to endure the impact and trauma caused by that separation. This foundation, and everything in its library, flows from that vow.
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Where to go next
Explore the Library
Research, self-help guidance, and the law itself — statistics and testimonies, federal and state law, and resources for every state, written out plainly for the parents who have to live under it.
Explore the Library → The bookRead the Book
The library bound into one reference volume — drawn from a lifetime inside this issue, first as a child who lived parental alienation, then as a father determined the pattern would not repeat.
Read the Book → Support the causeSupport the Cause
The library is free for every parent who needs it. The book, the ebook, and the shirt help keep this work going — for the next child, the next mother, and the next father.
Support the Cause →If family court is pushing you toward the edge, call now. You matter more to your kids alive and present than anything a court can order.